Life Quotes....

1)Never expect things to happen..
struggle and make them happen.
never expect yourself to be given a good value
create a value of your own..

2)If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.
But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl.so
choose the best place where you would shine..

3)Falling down is not defeat...
defeat is when your refuse to get up...

4)Ship is always safe at shore... but is is not built for it..

5)When you are successful your well wishers know who you are
when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are...

6)It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults;
greater to tell him/her...

7)To the world you might be one person,
But to one person you just might be the world..

8)Effort is important, but knowing
where to make an effort in your
Life makes all the difference...

9)Never take some one for granted,Hold every person
Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise
that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.
Remember this always in life...

Happiness in Life..

Happiness is like a Mask... So You should always wear it..

Miss U...

You will never know true happiness until you have truly loved, and you will never understand what pain really is until you have lost it.

A Wonderful Story...

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"

" We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How n ice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"

His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

Their daughter was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter's advice," said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest ."

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, t he lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success !!!!!!"

Power of truth.......

Truth does not have to be explained.
It is evident the moment you encounter it. Truth has no need of elaborate attempts at sophistication.

For in its very simplicity, truth is indeed profound.
Truth can often be difficult to accept.

Yet it is at the same time easy to understand.
Falsehood and deception require ever-expanding support in order to continue.

And the day will always come when they crumble
under the weight of their own contradictions.
Truth, on the other hand, becomes ever brighter and more compelling
as each day passes by.

Truth welcomes every scrutiny, and grows stronger as a result.
Align your thoughts, your words, your actions,
your life with what you know to be true.
And the power of truth will pull you steadily forward

Phir usi chand

Phir usi chand se rishta bana baithe,

Phir usi saadgi se fareb kha baithe,

Pathron se they taalukaat hamare,

Phir bhee sheeshe ka ghar bana baithe.

Modern Tin(3) Bandar...

Damm Good...

Forgiving or punishing the terrorists is left to God.
But, fixing their appointment with God is our responsibility.
- Indian Army


Updated statement for this in S/W INDUSTRY

Forgiving or punishing the Developer is left to Manager.
But, fixing their appointment with Manager is our responsibility.
- Tester

WE all knew that..... but this one is for the finishing touch, damn good.

Forgiving or punishing the Manager is left to Client.
But, fixing their appointment with Client is our responsibility.
-Developer

Perception

One day, the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the express purpose of showing him how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?" "It was great, Dad." "Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked. "Oh yeah," said the son. "So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?" asked the father. The son answered: "I saw that we have one dog and they had four.
We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end.
We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have field that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.
We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them." The boy's father was speechless. Then his son added, "Thanks Dad for showing me how poor we are" Isn't perspective a wonderful thing? Makes you wonder what would happen if we all gave thanks for everything we have, instead of worrying about what we don't have. Appreciate every single thing you have, especially your friends!

"Life is too short and friends are too few."

Honesty is Still The Best Policy

Once a general manager wanted to test his people who had come from all over India, about their values of life.
He announced that in their seminar folder, there is PVC pouch and in it there is a seed. When they return, they must put it in a good soil in a pot and look after it very well.
He would hold a competition in the next year's seminar and that the best plants would be awarded suitably.
Everyone did what was told to him. A year passed quickly. And next year in a big hall, there were hundreds of pots and a great variety of plants-a great scene.
Except one pot in which the soil was there and no plant! The owner was standing quietly and seemingly ashamed of himself!
The general manager called him on the stage. He asked him what happened and he told him the truth. He planted the seed which he was given – and did that was to be done- but nothing happened!
The general manager declared him the winner!
Everyone was shocked. It was announced, "Gentlemen! The seeds I gave you were boiled seeds. You planted them and nothing happened! You acted smartly and used some other seeds.

This man was honest to his work and, therefore he did not cheat me or himself!"

Always Respect Others Work (Nice Story)

This is a story about five brothers who live in peace at one village. They are orphans, they live by run rice field inheritance from their parents. They rice field is far from home, so they have to go to field at dawn.

And they agree to let the youngest brother at home to take care their house. The youngest agree and very happy about the decision. So every day when his brother go home they found that house is clean, knit and comfortable. Foods and drinks have prepared on the table, their bed were knitted and all dirty clothes have washed.

But one of his brother had jealous to the youngest, so he said to other brother that the youngest is cheated, because he did not go to the field. And the other agree to about his opinion so now they decide to go to the field together including the youngest. But now when they go home they found that their home is mess, not care well and table is empty. Now they realize that their youngest brother had very important role , and his brother have under estimated his role.

Never under estimated people who work behind the scene, whose work never can be seen..Remember ! We have equipped with different talents, so by that we can work together and help each other.

Quotes(M.K.Gandhi)

• The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
• Hate the sin, love the sinner.
• Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress.
• In the attitude of silence the soul finds the path in a clearer light, and what is elusive and deceptive resolves itself into crystal clearness. Our life is a long and arduous quest after Truth.
• When I despair, I remember that all through history the ways of truth and love have always won. There have been tyrants, and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible, but in the end they always fall. Think of it--always.
• You must be the change you want to see in the world.
• You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.

Mahatma Gandhi

Some Quotes.........

Deep Prayers.....

The deeper your prayers echo in your own consciousness, the more audible they are to God.

There is a story of a peasant girl who was passing through a farm while going to another village. There was a person offering his prayers in the open. The law is that no one should cross the place where anyone is praying. When this girl returned from the village this man was still sitting there. He said, 'O girl, now what terrible sin have you committed!' 'What did I do?' asked she. 'I was offering prayers here, and you passed over this place'. The girl asked, 'What do you mean by offering prayers?' 'Thinking of God', he replied. The girl said, 'Yes? Were you thinking of God? I was thinking of my young man whom I was going to meet, and I did not see you. Then how did you see me while you were thinking of God?'

Prayer from the depth and prayer from the surface are two prayers. One can utter what Christ has called 'vain repetitions’, just repeating the prayer; one does not fix one's mind on the meaning of the prayer. If the depth of one's heart has heard the prayer, God has heard it.

I STILL LOVE YOU

I dont know what to write,
but all i wana say
i am missing you today...
i know you too are
you are close to me
so close but yet so far..

thinking of you,
once again
tears roll down my cheeks
i am missing you
today i wanted to meet

but no
i will not return
this pain is mine
and forever i'll burn..

but still weeping inside silently
keeping away from this world
i want to say to wish you
the best in ur life...

i know GOD has been so harsh to me..
he gave me you...
and then took u away...

no i dont complain even to you..
i just wanted to say
"I STILL LOVE YOU"

Merry X-Mas

Merry X-Mas Greetings

Aayo Masti Kare...(Funny)

Kiya sochte hai, hum.....

kiya sochte hai, hum,
Dil me kiya hai hummare,
Kaise bhool payenge unhe,
Jo dil me hai hummare...


Dil me dard liye,
Chehare pe muskaan liye,
Behlate hai mann ko,
Kabi tow hoga khusio ka sawera...


Mil kar aise juda hue,
Jaise samunder ke do kinare,
Qhurbaan kardi humne mohabbat,
Ho gae hum besahare...


Ye dard omer bhar ka...liye hum,
Phir bhi dil ye pukare,
"YA KHUDA" khush rakhna unhe,
Jo jeete the kabi hummare sahare...


Shikwa,Shikayat kis se kare hum,
Apne hi samaj na sake, dil ko hummare,
Ab phir mohabbat na hogi hummse,
Kar liya hai "ya" BADNAAM khud ko hummne...

Forgiveness...

Forgiveness is the economy of the heart...

forgiveness saves the expense of

anger, the cost of hatred, the waste of spirits...

Chahat....

Chahat ke hai kai Roop...

Pati-patni ki chahat,

Maa-paap ko aulad ki chahat,

Premi-premika ki chahat,

Kuch pane ki chahat,

Duniya lutane ki chahat,

Dil harne ki chahat,

Mar mitne ki chahat,

Pagelpan ki chahat,

Chahat ko chahat se dour jane ki chahat,

Koi pyaar se dour hone ki chahat,

Koi kisi se piche hathne ki chahat,

Tow zindagi haar baitne ki chahat,

Per har waqt nakaam hoti,kiyu hai ye chahat,

Dil me Intezar dard jagati kiyu hai ye chahat,

Zidh per aajae tow kamiyab hoti hai ye chahat,

Insaan ko mazboor or lachar banati hai ye chahat,

Omer bhar ke liye "ya" aansu bhar deti hai ye chahat...

Friendship...

The Porcupine

During the Glacial Age, many animals died of cold. The porcupine, noticing this situation, agreed to live in groups; this way they gave warmth and protection to each other. But the thorns hurt the closest neighbors, just those that gave them warmth. And because of that, they separated from each other.

But they felt cold again and had to take a decision: either they disappear from the face of the earth or they accept the thorns of their neighbors. With wisdom, they decided to go back and live together.

They learned thus to live with the small wounds that a close relationship could make, because what was really important was the warmth of the other. And in so doing they survived.

The best relationship is not that which unites perfect people, but that one where each one accepts the defects of others and forgives their own.

4 Gujju Wives and Cell Phones

Once 4 gujju wives met at a party talking about their husband's new cellular phones.



First gujju wife: "Maro pati NE pass mota Laura( Motorola) che!....


Second gujju wife: "Aree sirf mota Laura thi kya hoga? Errection( ERICSSON)chahiye!....


Third gujju wife: "Aree mota Laura bhi theeck hai,errection bhi theeck hai, par semen(

seimens) nahi to kya fayda?...


And then the fourth said: "Mota Laura bhi ho, errecson bhi ho, semens bhi ho, lekin na

kiya( nokia) tho kya fayda??.."

!*!~* Beauty Of Words *~!*!

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".




NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than
you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive others, others will ignore our mistake too.



CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.




NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..




RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..



BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?"

The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

LOVE IS....... LIKE THIS

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna..