Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Love-- No Limit...



Ek ladke ne ek ladki ko propose kiya to ladki ne uske proposal ko thukra diya.Aur Ladka Kuch na Kehke Chala Gaya.

Ladke Ka Ek dost ye sab dekh raha tha. Aur dusre din use Udas Na dekh kar usse puchhata hai, tum to khush nazar aa rahe ho jab ki ladki ne to tumhara proposal ko thukara diya.. kya tum udas nahi ho ?

To woh ladka kahta hai, main udas kyun rahu? Woh bhi us ke liye jo mujhse pyar nahi karti, jab ki main janta hoon ki maine use khoya hai jo mujhse pyar nahi karti.. Udas to use hona chahiye, kyun ki usne use kho diya jo use sachche dil se pyar karta tha....

Monday, February 23, 2009

Quote / Thought for the Day - 6 ( 23-02-2009 )

“If I allow myself to be puffed up by praise and fame, then insult and defamation will destroy me.”



“Failure is not the worst thing in the world. The very worst is not to try.”

Quote / Thought for the Day - 5 ( 23-02-2009 )

“Real power and authority is not power and authority over others, but over the self.”



“It is your imagination that can take you anywhere.”

Anger and Love..

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.' 'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'

Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.

Quote / Thought for the Day - 4 ( 23-02-2009 )

“There are two things – ACTION and IMPACT behind the action. Even if the action is ordinary, the impact must be positive, productive and creative.”



“Listen to the faintest sound, for opportunities knock only once.”

Quote / Thought for the Day - 3 ( 23-02-2009 )

“Do not be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated."




"You can not cross a chasm in two small jumps.”

Quote / Thought for the Day - 2 ( 23-02-2009 )

“If eyes are windows to the soul, do you keep your eye clean? Dirty windows mean you have something to hide.”



“Faith and strength… Help you go through tough times.”

Quote / Thought for the Day - 1 ( 23-02-2009 )

“If your face is full of worry, you will cause others to worry. Is this a good thing?”





“ASPIRE, ACT and ACHIEVE.”

Intazaar tumhara ab talak hai...



Tumse milkar kisi se mila na gaya
Is jahan mai koi tumsa nahi tou kya karoon
Taman raat taare ginti hain aankhein
In mai neend na samaye tou kya karoon...

Har ghadi sunti hoon tere kadmon ki aahat
Palat kar dekhne par kuch na paoon tou kya karun
Voh sangdil gairon par karam karta hain
fir bhi uspar hi pyar aaye tou kya karoon...

Aankhon ki nami ko chupa kar jeene ki aadat hai hume
Sawan main barish sang ashq bah gaye tou kya karoon
Kab tak sahna hoga ay khuda jeene ka gum
Na unki khabar aaye na jaan jaye tou kya karoon...

Tum aasmaan ke Khoobsurat Chand ho
tumse dosti karne ki nadani ho gayi
dharti aur aasmaan kahan milte hain
ek kahani meri jindagani ho gayi...

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Complete Chapter Of Life....



Once a boy went to a shop with his mother. The shop keeper looked at the small cute child and showed him a bottle with sweets

and said 'Dear Child..u can take the sweets...

But the child didnt take. The shop keeper was surprised.. such a small child he is and why is he not taking the sweets from the bottle. Again he said take the sweets....

Now the mother also heard that and said.. take the sweets dear.. Yet he didnt take... The shopkeeper seeing the child not taking the sweets... he himself took the sweets and gave to the child. The child was happy to get two hands full of sweets.


While returning home the Mother asked the child... Why didnt you take the sweets, when the shop keeper told you to take?..

Can you guess the response: Child replies... Mom! my hands are very small and if i take the sweets i can only take few.. but now you see when uncle gave with his big hands.... how many more sweets i got!


Moral: When we take we may get little but when God gives... HE gives us more beyond our expectations... more than what we can hold..!!

Friday, February 13, 2009

M I With The Right Person?



"I Got This Article by E-mail.. So I am Sharing It With U All "

During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" the author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle...In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO!!