Pause and ponder

A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint.

The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into a pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands.

When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck ." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back? "

The father went home and committed suicide.

Think about the story the next time you see someone spill milk at a dinner table or hear a baby crying. Think first before you lose your patience with someone u love.


Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Understand and love .

Life Quotes....

1)Never expect things to happen..
struggle and make them happen.
never expect yourself to be given a good value
create a value of your own..

2)If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.
But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl.so
choose the best place where you would shine..

3)Falling down is not defeat...
defeat is when your refuse to get up...

4)Ship is always safe at shore... but is is not built for it..

5)When you are successful your well wishers know who you are
when you are unsuccessful you know who your well wishers are...

6)It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults;
greater to tell him/her...

7)To the world you might be one person,
But to one person you just might be the world..

8)Effort is important, but knowing
where to make an effort in your
Life makes all the difference...

9)Never take some one for granted,Hold every person
Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise
that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.
Remember this always in life...

Happiness in Life..

Happiness is like a Mask... So You should always wear it..

Miss U...

You will never know true happiness until you have truly loved, and you will never understand what pain really is until you have lost it.

A Wonderful Story...

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"

" We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How n ice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"

His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

Their daughter was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

"Let us heed our daughter's advice," said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest ."

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, t he lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success !!!!!!"

Power of truth.......

Truth does not have to be explained.
It is evident the moment you encounter it. Truth has no need of elaborate attempts at sophistication.

For in its very simplicity, truth is indeed profound.
Truth can often be difficult to accept.

Yet it is at the same time easy to understand.
Falsehood and deception require ever-expanding support in order to continue.

And the day will always come when they crumble
under the weight of their own contradictions.
Truth, on the other hand, becomes ever brighter and more compelling
as each day passes by.

Truth welcomes every scrutiny, and grows stronger as a result.
Align your thoughts, your words, your actions,
your life with what you know to be true.
And the power of truth will pull you steadily forward

Phir usi chand

Phir usi chand se rishta bana baithe,

Phir usi saadgi se fareb kha baithe,

Pathron se they taalukaat hamare,

Phir bhee sheeshe ka ghar bana baithe.