Thursday, February 7, 2008

Quotes...











When U Will Win

I hope you will forgive me Lord..

I hope you will forgive me Lord
If some days I forget to pray.
It isn't that I don't need You
But my duties get in the way.

You see, when my days are busy,
I'm rushing here and there,
At everyone's beck and call
With not a moment to spare.

I need to spend time with You
To help me meet life's demands,
For I couldn't face the future
Without You holding my hands.

But whenever I forget to pray, Lord,
Please forgive my erring ways,
It isn't that I don't need You
It's just one of those busy days.

Saying Sorry After Fight

Say sorry only when you mean it. Saying sorry after a fight just to avoid further argument does not help. This is so because deep down you still feel that you were right and your partner was wrong. The issue does not get resolved and the next time even a smallest of mistake by your partner will snowball into a major issue and all the old matters will be raised again, leaving both of you frustrated.
Do not take too much time in saying sorry. Saying sorry after a week will mean nothing. However, do take some time to think about your apology. It should not look as if you are saying sorry just for the heck of it.
While saying sorry, do not bring up old issues or do not refer to the mistakes of your partner. You are here to accept your mistakes and not to criticize.
Do not say sorry on the phone, through sms or via e-mail. It will hurt your partner even more. If you feel you have done something wrong, have the courage to say that you are sorry.
After saying sorry, wait for the reaction of your partner. Give him/her an opportunity to vent his/her feelings, hurt as well as anger. Be patient and only after he/she is through, give your explanation.

Kabhi roke muskuraye..

Kabhi roke muskuraye, kabhi muskurake roye
Teri yaad jab bhi aayee, tujhe bhula bulake roye
Ek tera hi naam tha jise hazaar baartha likha
Jise khush hue the likhkar use mita mitake roye

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Never say you are happy, when you are sad

Never say you are happy, when you are sad.
Never say you are fine, when you are not okay.
Never say you feel good, when you feel bad.
Never say you are alone, when i'm still alive.
If time slips away without a word from me.
You don't have to worry about our relationship
because feelings beyond words will always
keep me around you.
Success always occurs in private and failure in full view.
The love we give away is the only love we keep.
Introduction is possibel anytime
Love is possible sometime
Marriage is possbile onetime
but you is possible once in a life time.
Friends can live many miles away but the bond of
love and friendship formed long ago always keeps
them close at heart.
Friendship is like the relation between the hand and the
eyes, its like when the hand gets hurt the eye cries and
when the eye cires the hand wipes it's tears.
If i have a book of Life, I know that you will be one of
it's most beautiful chapters. If i get to read it, i will open
it on the page that i met you.
In gods eyes love is never absent,
In gods heart forgiveness is never impossible,
In gods embrace no one is ever alone.
Side by side or miles apart, a good friend will always
be close to you heart.
True friendship is when 2 friends walk in different
directions and yet remain side by side.
My friendship is like and onion which has many
layers in it. It will add taste to your life but if
you try to cut it. It will bring tears to your eyes.
Walk with me when your heart needs company.
Talk to me when you feel all alone.
Trust me when your heart beats more.
Think of me when ever you need a shoulder.
When changes come 2 us we tend 2 forget many things
but no matter how many changes comes in my life,
No changes can make me forget u. That's how much
you mean to me.

Turn It Around..

We live in a culture that uses labels as a means of understanding the world and the people living in it. As a result, many of us find ourselves laboring under a label that has a negative connotation. Unless we can find a way to see the good in such a label, we may feel burdened by an idea of ourselves that is not accurate. It is important to remember that almost nothing in this world is all good or all bad, and most everything is a complex mixture of gifts and challenges. In addition, different cultures revere certain qualities over others, but this does not mean that these qualities are inherently good or bad. For example, a culture that elevates outgoing behavior will label an introvert in a negative way, calling them antisocial. In truth, the ability to spend time alone is one that most great artists, mystics, and visionaries share. Owning the positive side of this label can lead us deeper into our gifted visions and fertile imaginations.

When we look into the lives of any of the great people in history, we always find that they had quirks and eccentricities that earned them less than ideal labels from the societies in which they lived. Many famous artists and musicians were considered to be isolated loners or disruptive troublemakers, or sometimes both, yet these people altered history and contributed to the world an original vision or advances in our understanding of the universe. If we can remember this as we examine our own selves and the labels people use to describe us, we find that there is a bright side to any characterization.

If you have been labeled, remember that all you have to do to see the positive side is to turn the label around. For example, you may be considered to be overly emotional, and the fact that you are perceived this way may make you feel out of control. But notice, too, the gifts of being able to feel and express your emotions, even in a world that doesn't always encourage that. You might begin to see yourself as brave and open-hearted enough to stay alive to your feelings. You may also see that there are certain paths and professions in which this is a necessary ability. As you turn your label around, the light of your true nature shines to guide you on your way.